Add the possibility to customize DeadLetterPublishingRecovererFactory logging

[lm231290]

Expected Behavior

RetryTopicConfigurationSupport to allow customizing log behavior

Current Behavior

DeadLetterPublishingRecovererFactory.maybeLogListenerException is private and can't be customized

Context

I want to log only certain type of exceptions controlled by the services of the application. If the exception class is not our business exception, I'd like to log high-level info only with no details and the stack trace
The matter is some exceptions can contain PHII which is not allowed to be logged. For instance, we use Confluent Kafka, and when it fails to deserialize, it adds the message payload in the exception
As a workaround I tried to override DestinationTopicResolver, RetryTopicComponentFactory or log in the PartitionResolver. All the options have drawbacks such as limited input, or called more then once, or require massive factory customization