[0.75] Upstream CLI `isPureCxxDependency` logic to RNGP

### Target Branch(es)

0.75

### Link to commit or PR to be picked

https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/ca17d87ed1554ad023666c6971caaa5d3906807b

### Description

This brings the `isPureCxxDependency` logic to RNGP:
https://github.com/react-native-community/cli/pull/2387