Increase Node version support in next major (v11)

### Description

For v11 we probably want to bump our minimum support Node version.

- We want to use `@apm-js-collab/tracing-hooks` to inject code into dependencies but it uses `TracingChannel` which requires Node >= v19.9.0 or v18.19.0
- We could potentially only ship ESM code if we only support Node versions that support `require(esm)` which requires Node >= 22.12.0 or 20.19.0