Parquet Use U64 Instead of Usize (wasm support for files greater than 4GB)

[tustvold]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

Various parquet APIs use usize instead of u64 when interacting with files

Describe the solution you'd like

Much like ObjectStore made the switch (#6961), we should make the same switch for parquet

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context

[alchemist51]

I can give this one a shot @tustvold .

[alchemist51]

take

[alchemist51]

Have created a draft PR: #7252 @tustvold